Handling money. Getting out of debt.
Credit cards. Buying a house.
We learn all about it in school,
right? Not so much.
Personal
finance is a topic often forgotten in our school systems
Why is that?
Government conspiracy, perhaps?
Not enough time in the day?
Honestly, it doesn’t matter and you
can’t change what you weren’t taught, but you are fully capable of changing
what you teach yourself and who you listen to.
That’s what this is about…
who you
listen to…
Who
are You Taking Advice From?
Our parents are our first teachers
in life.
Before we step foot into a
classroom, we already have an idea of what the world is all about.
An idea we obtained from whatever
our parents ingrained in us.
When it comes to finances, our
parents generally try to help us along in different ways.
Allowances, piggy banks, education
savings, trust funds…you get the idea.
And some of our parents actually do
have it figured out, but statistically, most do not.
So who are you listening to when it
comes to your finances?
Your parents? Grandparents? Uncle?
Aunt? Siblings? Colleagues from work?
Who
You Should Be Taking Advice From
You shouldn’t take financial advice
from people based on your relationship with them.
On the contrary, just because you
shouldn’t be taking financial advice from someone, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t
be taking other advice from them.
So, how do you know who to listen
to?
Here are a few questions to ask
yourself…
- Are they living by the advice they are giving?
- Are they where you want to be financially?
- Are they giving advice from personal experience?
If you wanted marital advice, you
probably wouldn’t seek it from someone who has been divorced 5 times.
Advice should come from someone who
is where you want to be.
Different
People, Different Skills
This goes for every area of your
life and it applies to the content you consume too.
It’s smart to reach out to different
people for different advice.
Think of maintaining your home.
Plumbers, electricians and carpenters all serve very different purposes.
You want the best of the best in
every field.
This may even mean that you get
different financial advice from different people.
Some people know stocks. Others know
real estate. And others know all about precious metals.
Use your resources and seek out
mentors.
Stop
listening to financial failures
There. I said it.
Plain and simple.
You may not want to admit that some
of your close family and friends don’t know what they are talking about when it
comes to handling money, but you need to face the facts. For your sake.
Find people you can trust for
advice.
If you know someone who is
successful, tell them you want to learn from them.
Most people are happy to teach you,
but you have to ask.
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